A girl can hope, though, right?
The prospects of a healing relationship do look pretty grim, but there are small things to cling onto. Kasak does indeed appear to care for her both with and without his earrings, and that's enormously good. At this point, I think a lot of it depends on whether he comes back to Agwen, and he'd better. Preferably within a reasonable time frame. That would nudge things in the right direction.
I suddenly feel like I've bumbled into a topic that has been discussed in much greater detail somewhere or another. Ah, my forum newbiness comes back to bite. Heh. Anyways.
A point I was. . . sort of dancing around without saying outright though, is that I don't think their relationship ever even had a chance to heal so long as Kasak kept those earrings on because of the way Agwen dismisses him with the earrings.
*drums fingers* Although, I hadn't really directly thought of things in terms of Agwen regarding him as a father only when he had the earrings off. It's a very concise way of stating things. You've given me something to contemplate.
. . . Oh boy, relearning how to quote multiple points from different people. Let's see if this works how I think it should. . .
I said that Agwen's attitude towards Kasak is a sort of coping mechanism, and if I could elaborate further: it seems that when he has the earrings on, she doesn't treat him as her father. We've noticed that she only calls him father when he has his earrings off. There could be two reasons for this:
- Without the earrings on, Kasak said that he could just forget that she's his daughter, dump her and leave. Perhaps as 'revenge', Agwen doesn't treat him as her father when he has the earrings on.
- Alternatively, it could be that she thinks that with the earrings on, her father is just a fake, a personality created by the earrings. I admit that one thing I find a bit shocking is that Kasak doesn't really think much about having the earrings on or not. Normal humans would find the prospect of parting with their emotions to be appalling.
It could be a bit of both. What makes relations so interesting in Kubera is how Currygom throw in unique biological twists.
The latter sounds very likely. =o Thanks for expanding on the coping mechanism idea a bit more; it's interesting. =)
I kind of like how having or not having emotions in the normal human sense doesn't matter to him, lol. He just seems to wear the earrings for sake of other people's peace of mind, not his own.
Hmm, I'd say Kasak is Kasak regardless of the earring situation. Just normal for him is having his emotions in a tidy little box where he's more apt to analyze them instead of allowing them to move him. That is literally what emotion means, afterall. Earrings on would then make him more impulsive: more apt to feel and then act upon those feelings.
So, he even though he might seem like a different person with the earrings on, it's just drawing on something that's normally buried.
^Or it could be that with the earrings on, her father is reminded that she's his daughter but without the earrings,Kasak might forgot about her being his daughter so she calls him "Dad" so that he won't forget. I think Agwen is scared of being abandoned by her father.
I think you hit the nail on the head.
It really is curious that both of them do stay with each other. I would definitely agree that Agwen seems to be a very well adjusted adult except where her father is concerned.
In a way, though, it does make sense for her to sponser him, since they are blood family and all. But she doesn't really need to sponser him either. Man's got fans all over the place and good standing with plenty of magicians and priests. Kasak doesn't seem to need her at all, but he does care for her. Maybe it wouldn't be a stretch to say Agwen needs him. Severe psychological trauma can and does freeze affected areas of emotional development.
Lastly. . . Hmm, I actually like both Kasak and Maruna. Kasak is unpredictable in a fascinating sort of way that ranges from serious to trollface.
Then, Maruna is like the perceptive guy who actually really sucks at making decisions: he'll always choose the worst possible option. I think he'd benefit from a sensible girlfriend to steer him around and push him in the right
direction, but the odds of that happening look nothing less than abyssmal. As is, he's walking a very destructive path for both himself and everyone he encounters. And I honestly don't think he'll get off it until it's far too late.
I will say, though. Maruna's disregard for humanity is rather off-putting, and compromising one's morals isn't something I'd ever put a stamp of approval on. His attitude towards other clans and races works for the story though since it paints a picture of sura relations in general. In a way, he's a typical sura in that he places his own vendetta first, then his family and clan, then allied clans. Everything is either food or nothing.
I will forever love how he called the elite of the anantas a three piece snack set.
*frowns up at post* Okay, I think I have that all sorted out semi-coherently. Hopefully.