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[Equiliz]

What value do you lack as a person. What brings you into troubles, because it's just who you are?

Mine is an almost total lack of patience. I don't really have any, or at least none when I should...

[Colour]

What brings you into troubles,

Probably my Mouth. I tend to say things to people, regardless if it will hurt there feelings or not.

I should work on that ;/

[Lyneth]

I analyze behaviour or people too much and try to explain them on psychological base. Makes people nuts because i always try to find a logical cause for the reasons behind someone's actions first... so in general i'd say i speculate a lot about people but without judging them...

[hero]

I don´t trust people.
other than my family I trust just 1 person ...

[softpick]

I'm scared of people.

[Angelo.]

same as colour i tend to say shit wen i feel like it.

[Liar]

A majority of past exes say I'm too aloof. Which is crazy.

[The Roady]

I dont have patience or the mindset to do things right

[Heretic]

is self-motivation a value?

[Liar]

I believe the ability to motivate yourself is a value. I think that would be classified under determination or something...?

[Katzilla]

is self-motivation a value?

I'd say it is. I also have that issue, otherwise I'd be curing cancer or something.

[POMF=3]

I'm a liar.

[krytyk]

I'm too damn kind, i always end wasting effort on helping people that don't deserve it, and somehow it ends up backfiring on myself. So, more or less, i lack... well... "i dont give a fuck" attitude maybe?

Edited by krytyk, 04 January 2012 - 10:23 AM.

[Autumn]

I'm scared of people.

I'm the same

Edited by Autumn, 04 January 2012 - 04:28 PM.

[Equiliz]

I'm the same

I think more of us, like me.

[Liar]

I'm a liar.

You can't be me!

[Buttock Follicle]

Procrastination is a long-time hobby

[Katzilla]

Procrastination is a long-time hobby

I suffer from this. MAJORLY. Which isn't a good thing to have when you got constant project schedules to meet.

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I have a tendency to say nothing in a conversation when I don't have the perfect word to say. When I should be saying something, I'm instead thinking of what to say and when I've thought of what to say the moment to say it has already passed. It's kind of debilitating really. My conversations amount to slow paced banter, small talk, and conversations I really want to get out of but can't because I can't think of the proper way to say "I have to go" so I just keep nodding and smiling and slowly putting my books in my bag and sidling towards the door, dropping subtle hints that I want to leave so please give me a chance to do so, but they never do, so I continue the conversation from the doorway because for me I can only end conversations at very certain points otherwise I feel extremely uncomfortable and for like an hour after the conversation has already ended I'll still want to end the conversation the way it should have been ended. Um... yeah. It's a bit better with family members and people I've known for a long time, and also deep conversations, since I've noticed those have a tendency to go in circles anyway so if I miss my chance on the first rundown there's always a second time, or third, or fourth... It's also fine on forums, though I notice there are things I tend to avoid like the plague, such as introductions. Dunno. So I guess I desperately lack conversational skills? It's not that I can't speak, I'm just unable to. Or was it the other way around?

[POMF=3]

I have a tendency to say nothing in a conversation when I don't have the perfect word to say. When I should be saying something, I'm instead thinking of what to say and when I've thought of what to say the moment to say it has already passed. It's kind of debilitating really. My conversations amount to slow paced banter, small talk, and conversations I really want to get out of but can't because I can't think of the proper way to say "I have to go" so I just keep nodding and smiling and slowly putting my books in my bag and sidling towards the door, dropping subtle hints that I want to leave so please give me a chance to do so, but they never do, so I continue the conversation from the doorway because for me I can only end conversations at very certain points otherwise I feel extremely uncomfortable and for like an hour after the conversation has already ended I'll still want to end the conversation the way it should have been ended. Um... yeah. It's a bit better with family members and people I've known for a long time, and also deep conversations, since I've noticed those have a tendency to go in circles anyway so if I miss my chance on the first rundown there's always a second time, or third, or fourth... It's also fine on forums, though I notice there are things I tend to avoid like the plague, such as introductions. Dunno. So I guess I desperately lack conversational skills? It's not that I can't speak, I'm just unable to. Or was it the other way around?

Socially awkward, social anxieties, welcome to the club.