its just a stupid question just say if u yell or get into physical fight like fist fight or throw stuff and ... for me i used to yell and punch then i got a bit older and tired of arguments now i just stay silent and if it gets too much i leave that place and the whole time i have this inner war that should i just let it blow or hold it?i end up holding it most of the times...yea boorring
what do u do when you are really mad?
#1
Posted 04 June 2014 - 08:59 PM
#2
Posted 04 June 2014 - 09:51 PM
When I'm angry I get quiet, and try to abandon any conversation I'm having. Flee the scene and try to go outside is the usual move, and if I have the time I might go for a jog to cool my jets. Singing as loudly as I can helps, too.
#3
Posted 04 June 2014 - 10:03 PM
When I'm angry I get loud or quiet depending on how mad I am. Louder than I already am that is. >.> Anyways I hear them out and then make snarky comments and then laugh at them even if I'm in the wrong and then I walk away satisfied. The dark side is....I try to think of a way I can kill them
Wow!
#4
Posted 04 June 2014 - 11:42 PM
If I were to get angry I would either just ignore the person that made me angry for a bit or if that is not possible I would start arguing. I would try to avoid fights if possible.
#5
Posted 04 June 2014 - 11:43 PM
#6
Posted 05 June 2014 - 01:47 AM
I try to stay quiet and not talk to anyone, and go somewhere by myself. If I am forced to talk I usually say something mean and my family realizes I'm mad and back away. When I'm furious I can't control how much strength I use. It makes me clumsy, and if I'm not careful I'll break things, like dishes etc. Usually I can't use that much strength but when I'm mad, heavy things feel much lighter, etc, and I don't feel pain until later (ex: kicked a wall, 'hmm kindof uncomfortable' -> later, 'Owww my foot!').
(I really don't like to get mad. I'd rather never be mad. When I'm angry I feel (and probably sound a little like) like a dragon breathing fire and I know it scares people. Its not a good feeling seeing people back away from you.)
Edited by shelly, 05 June 2014 - 01:48 AM.
#7
Posted 05 June 2014 - 02:56 AM
Well it depends really, I don't get mad, I may get evening. (Like destroying their credit score, making their bank account tried, or I prank them on April fools day and it will prank after prank the moment they step out to the moment they leave the car. fufufu
#8
Posted 05 June 2014 - 03:13 AM
#9
Posted 05 June 2014 - 05:09 AM
#10
Posted 05 June 2014 - 12:25 PM
I bottle it up. Then I'd internalize, use stupid logic to somehow put all of the blame on myself.
#11
Posted 06 June 2014 - 09:27 AM
#12
Posted 06 June 2014 - 02:06 PM
Stay silent.. for hours
Well, in fact, I may accidentally break my friendship if I get angry to a friend.
Edited by Bobby Wibowo, 06 June 2014 - 02:07 PM.
"Life is like riding a bicycle. To keep your balance, you must keep moving." - Albert Einstein
#13
Posted 06 June 2014 - 08:31 PM
Similar to when I'm flustered: I stammer.
Learned the art of the scary raised voice back in my boy scout days, when I needed to get unruly groups of kids to cool it and focus on the task at hand. That's not what I do when I'm "really mad", just when I want to seem mad for 'crowd control.'.
#14
Posted 06 June 2014 - 10:05 PM
but when it comes to that pedo neighbor and others who've hurt children, i just... read guro to calm myself down. works interestingly well, even better than imagining ten thousand ways to torture a person to death.
but if i'm jusy very upset but don't want to raise any conflict over it, onoken will calm me down in a very short time. more effective than any heavy dark stuff.
#15
Posted 08 June 2014 - 01:35 AM
#16
Posted 08 June 2014 - 01:47 AM
I get quiet and murmur under my breath
You are like the Brick Character from The Middle that does that.
I just go to library and read then again that is what I always do
#17
Posted 08 June 2014 - 02:52 AM
#18
Posted 08 June 2014 - 09:27 AM
Lots of things I do.
There are times when i'd be silent to avoid more arguing but if that person keeps on talking and talking, I can't control my body moving towards him/her and hurt them.
Um, or i'd go somewhere people won't see then i'd try throwing things and break stuff. For example during high school, some people from pissed me off. I controlled my anger until I get home, when I reached my room, I immediately punched the mirror attached to my cabinet. Of course it cracked and some fell to the floor. When I calmed down and opened my cabinet to get some change of clothes, I realised I also damaged my cabinet door.
But good thing, I can now manage my anger.
Edited by George Alex, 08 June 2014 - 09:35 AM.
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Castle On The Hill
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#19
Posted 08 June 2014 - 03:32 PM
#20
Posted 08 June 2014 - 03:33 PM
I don't get really mad.
I guess that solves the underlying problem, eh?