Pretty sure Abraham had multiple wives... at what point in the bible did polygamy start to be regarded as heresy again?
From a theological standpoint, the entire old testament does record cases of polygamy. However, most or these instances usually are associated with these individuals or groups having a low point in their faith and relation to God (specifically Abraham and all other 'Godly' men). The Old Testament's impetus, to put it simply, focuses on the downfalls of Israel as the chosen nation by god, universally reflecting the sinful human nature that was wrought by their own hands. God's "wrath" is more rather disappointment and and punishment on behalf of upholding his side of the promise, striving to reconcile with mankind as he sets up the next generations for the coming of Jesus Christ.stern
In addition, the bible clearly states on several occasions that marriage is between two people--more specifically a man and woman. Monogamy was in actuality highly encouraged, most likely due to the social and economical aspects, tying back to other speculations in the thread.
Many people pull out what I call "single line threads", meaning that they isolate an sentence or phrase from an entire section, skewing the meaning for their own desires.
“Don't waste your time with explanations: people only hear what they want to hear.” ― Paulo Coelho
Of course there are some cases in which the bible does address polygamy directly as a subject, for instance
Deuteronomy 21:15New International Version (NIV) The Right of the Firstborn
15 If a man has two wives, and he loves one but not the other, and both bear him sons but the firstborn is the son of the wife he does not love,
However, within the same book, this verse comes up:
Deuteronomy 17:17 ESV
And he shall not acquire many wives for himself, lest his heart turn away, nor shall he acquire for himself excessive silver and gold.
Bringing up the question whether many pro-polygamists have actually read the bible in its entirety--identifying the motifs and underlying beliefs--rather than pick out these little cherry-like tidbits for their own studies. For example, Deuteronomy focuses heavily on God attempting to deal with a nation not yet unborn and raised heresy after worshiping the golden calf while Moses was on Mount Sinai. Deut. 17:17 establishes that the King of Isreal may not whatsoever have multiple wives. As the King, he is placed as a role model for all men in the nation. Deut. 21:15 simply acts as a scenario in which favoritism for whichever son may not be shown, as is the case with many polygamous relations within the Bible. In addition, this invocation to treat the wives equally in both stature and love also acts as a deterrent, dealing with the developing social pressure against polygamous relations.
However, Deuteronomy is basically God dealing with these Isrealites (basically prepubescent teens rebelling against their parent), with Moses as a mediator. In fact, a lot of the words spoken here are Moses' as he's trying to compromise with the Israelites after he had begged God to quell his wrath. In many ways, Moses is taking initiative in dealing with Isreal, and God had placed complete responsibility upon him. In no way is it a perfect and long-standing decree, because Moses is simply trying to bide the sins of the people through the ramifications of law. Like many other things in Deuteronomy, Moses has attempted to place them into written law for the Isrealites to follow, solidifying first a nation under God rather than address the needs of every single one on their own volition. It's similar to starting with a big block of clay, and then whittling down to the finer details.
Biblical spiel aside, I hate it when others don't properly analyze a text before abusing it.
Other than that, I'm against polygamy. As many others here have already said, it creates complications within a societal sense as conflicting relations and animosity between members. For those who say it would work, pull your head out of your ass. If this were an ideal world, sure, but people can do some pretty stupid shit if polygamy were tolerated, let alone accepted. From a conservative standpoint, polygamy often leads to discord amongst relations between people. From a progressive standpoint, Everyone is too fucking selfish for that. Labeled as love, the want to have someone only to themselves is only natural desire in human nature. For the most part, marriage by itself doesn't seem to work for most people anyways because of this...I feel polygamy could only go two ways: either it works out extremely well on a wide scale (of course that would never work), or it goes extremely south (Hell itself is reincarnated).
Of course, if it's out of sight, it's out of mind. Other people can do what they want if it works.
Edited by Zelkanok, 21 August 2015 - 08:15 AM.